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Your Attraction Factor

While on a recent girl’s weekend to New York City, I was elated to have some serious people watching time. Being a classic people-watcher, I was in my glory – whether the girls and I were out scouting boutiques in SOHO during the day, or out lounging, laughing and dancing at various places at night - it’s absolutely apparent how people, whoever they are, give off a distinct vibe.

Whether it was the bartender who smiled, talked, and took care of us first (who we tipped handsomely by the way), to the woman who was so rude to us when we walked into her store that we no sooner walked right out – it all boils down to the fact that - all people give off a vibe – either positive or negative – it’s there and it can’t be hidden.

I’m sure you notice it too – most of the time it’s unconscious – but you know when someone is giving off a positive vibe – when you just feel drawn to them, you want to learn more, you want to be in their presence and interact with them – to someone who gives off a vibe that immediately makes you want to run the other way – to stay away from them at all costs.

So, what is this vibe? What is it about people that we notice but can’t necessarily define – it’s just something we sense?

Vibes start on the inside – they aren’t something you master or can fake. Your vibe comes from how you’re feeling about yourself - and how you feel about others. It unconsciously states – come closer, let’s talk, interact, engage in conversation – OR – it says – please stay away from me, I don’t want you near me because I feel intimated, insecure, or downright angry and don’t want to interact.

Here is a Truth I want you to really consider – and ponder – and see how it relates to you and your own personal situation. Here it is: You attract who you are- and in order to attract and manifest what you deeply want for your business and life- you need to realize who you really are.

What does that mean you ask?

What that statement means is – if you aren’t experiencing all that you desire for your life and work on the outside, then something on the inside needs to shift. You need to become aware of qualities within you that you haven’t discovered yet – so you can attract all that you desire.

See, what tends to gets taught is – if you want different results in your life or work – you need to go “out there” and find those results, or those answers – and most likely you’ll hear a message that you need to change who you are, and work really, really hard in order to receive the results you want.

Wrong approach.

This approach makes you feel like you’re chasing your tail. It makes you feel exhausted and frankly “not good enough” because you’re thinking you need to be something or someone different than who you are in order to “get there” – and be who you want to be in this world.

Yet my approach and belief system is different where I believe (and teach from) is the place where the Truth is: you already possess everything you need to manifest anything and everything you want – you simply need to realize those qualities that exist with yourself – that may have been lying dormant for years – but they’re there – and they’re waiting to be excavated and brought into the light.

Whatever it is that you desire – whether it’s to increase your revenues in your business, have the courage to quit that dead-end job that you hate, or to finally attract the love of your life – it starts on the inside first – and it starts with you realizing that you’re worth it all – and that the woman you’ve always dreamed of being – is just waiting to come up for air – and show you the way to all you ever dreamed of.

Will you let her come up for that air and let her show you the light?