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Bringing Sexy Back
Yet, last week's note was only half of the story of the unraveling process of discovery I've been going through the last six months. In this process of radical honesty, not only did I force myself to get really real about how I was working out of integrity, I also got radically honest about how I was living out of integrity, especially in the area of my personal life and romance.
What I realized was – all the visions, all the dreams, all the desires to serve and make a difference via my work, don't mean a damn thing if I was walking down the road alone.
And this seems obvious in itself where we all know at some level that life is better spent with others – and the moments that you remember are almost always when you're in the presence of someone you love. Whether it's sharing time with your children, your significant other, your loved ones, friends, etc. – it's always more rewarding when you're in the company of another who is deeply important to you.
Yet, my realization about personal connection went deeper for me in the sense that I came to a Truth that wasn't the easiest thing for me to admit. This Truth was: In order for me to go to the next level of growth and evolution on my personal and professional journey, and to continue to truly Claim My Own Worth, I couldn't (and didn't want to) become that woman by myself.
Now, I know at first-glance this may not be true for everyone – and many would argue in saying that we don't need others to become ourselves. And I would have been one of those saying the same thing since I've worked on overdrive working very, very hard to become "Miss Independent", "Miss Self-Sufficient", and "I'll Take Care of It Myself" woman.
Yet, when I say, 'becoming that woman' what I mean is – the woman that I've always truly desired to become - the part of me that longs to surrender, longs to be taken care, and longs to be cherished and adored. The part of me who pulls out images from magazines that speak to the truest part of me – the part that is radiant, sparkly, sexy, soft, vulnerable, relaxed, and in deep intimate union with another - especially with the man she's destined to spend her life with.
And by doing my own inner work, I came to the realization that I unconsciously held onto a false belief all these years where I believed that if I allowed myself to become more whole – and allowed myself to BE more in my feminine, where my true strength really resides, that I'd end up alone. In a nutshell, I had a deep-seated fear that the man I truly desired didn't exist – so I better dim my light- in order to be in a relationship.
Yet, in the last few weeks I've been speaking about the 'new man' in my life who over the period of time that we've gotten to know each other, is showing me that it the false belief I've held for so long isn't necessarily true. And that we women can feel 'safe enough' to emerge into our True, Feminine Selves in the company of another whose energy is strong enough to hold the space for our greatness.
And this is what the next evolution of the Claim Your Worth!® journey is going to be about. Teaching you how miracles can and do happen when you can tap into the dynamic energy within yourself, and with others, that allows you to become your True Self. The Self that is truly magnetic, relaxed, free-flowing, care-free, adventurous, sexy, participating in life, soaking in the moments, enjoying how your time feels, feeling honored, valued, cherished, recognized, and most importantly, SEEN for who you really are.
If I were to guess, your deepest desire within you is to give yourself permission to become that woman who is in receptive mode – rather than feeling like you're on constant overdrive, feeling burnt-out and exhausted tending to the needs of everyone else, when all you really desire is to be cherished, protected, taken care of – where you can relax into the arms of someone who will allow you to be your most radiant, sexy, desirable, Self.
You deserve to know how-to tap into this energy within yourself – and if this vision of authenticity speaks to you, I'd love to hear from you. Please write my assistant Jamie at Jamie@brendastanton.com and ask for my private email address where you can share your personal story with me – and what you deeply desire for your life, work/business, and in the area of romance. There will something special I'll be offering to one person's story I pick – so be sure to write in as soon as you can.
Meanwhile, stay tuned for some new announcements coming down the pike – and the opportunity for you to get to know this 'new man' who is strong enough to handle the radiance of Real Women – and who is someone I trust enough to allow into this sacred space – and help us all claim worth and make the difference in this world that we're here to make.
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