Embracing Your Inner Child

YOU are “Absolutely Fabulous”, but are you holding onto old negative beliefs about yourself you may have learned as a child that perhaps may not allow you to feel and be absolutely fabulous all of the time? Maybe you had an incident or incidents in your childhood that made you feel like you were not good enough or you may be harboring old learned beliefs regarding money that you are holding onto, whether consciously or not, that may be holding you back from realizing the wealth that you so rightly deserve. These negative beliefs can be a number of things and not just one that may be putting you in a rut.

These beliefs were formed early in our childhood. They could have come unknowingly from our parents, our culture or by a particular incident that put a stronghold of those beliefs in your mind that you are still struggling with today. These negative beliefs about yourself have molded you into the person you are today, but you can change that and replace those old self-defeating thoughts by following a few steps as often as it takes in order to let emerge a successful, joyful, beautiful, wonderful and absolutely fabulous you.

The fastest way of moving forward from those self-defeating beliefs is to first identify what you are harboring. Take a closer look at what is disabling you from the life you dream of. Ask yourself some very hard questions regarding what negative beliefs you have of yourself that may be holding you back.

Once you identify those crippling beliefs, also identify the moments in time where these beliefs were reinforced. Visualize yourself as a young child and go back in your mind to the time the negative belief first started. Visualize the setting, the people and yourself in this moment. Identify how you felt as a young child when you first perceived this belief. Meditate on your feelings. How did you feel? How do you feel about it today?

As you are identifying your feelings regarding the first reception of your negative self beliefs, also visualize yourself as an adult in this situation. As you place your adult self into this first incident, do you have a realization that it was your perception of the incident that caused the negative beliefs and not the real truth of the matter? No one is to blame for your perception of the belief that you are harboring. That includes your inner child.

Allow yourself as an adult to approach your inner child. Visualize yourself comforting and embracing your inner child. Tell your inner child that it is okay and that you only knew what you knew then. Thank your inner child for holding onto the old beliefs for you, but it is okay now to let them go. Allow forgiveness to fill your heart for yourself and for the people that may have contributed to the negative beliefs you used to harbor. Realize it was a perception of the matter and not the truth.

Going through these steps may be difficult at first. Identifying some negative incidents and then allowing yourself to feel your emotions can be tough, but once you can get through this and realize it is in the past and it was your inner child’s perception of the matter, not the truth, you will open up your heart and mind to realizing that you are good enough, you are capable, you are beautiful both inside and out, you do deserve love, you are worthy of great wealth and worthy of everything else you desire to living the life you dream of.

After repeating these steps you will begin to change your vibrational thoughts into a positive mindset and then there will be no stopping you because YOU are absolutely fabulous and you will know it without any doubts or lingering self-defeating thoughts!

“All personal breakthroughs begin with a change in beliefs.” ~ Anthony Robbins

“It’s not the events of our lives that shape us, but our beliefs as to what those events mean.”  ~ Anthony Robbins

“What we can or cannot do, what we consider possible or impossible, is rarely a function of our true capability. It is more likely a function of our beliefs.” ~ Anthony Robbins

“The outer conditions of a person’s life will always be found to reflect their inner beliefs.” ~ James Allen

“If you don’t change your beliefs, your life will be like this forever. Is that good news?” ~ William Somerset Maugham

“You can change your beliefs so they empower your dreams and desires. Create a strong belief in yourself and what you want.”  ~ Marcia Wieder