Love Archives - Ghosts Written by Deborah Koeppel

Ghosts

How are the past “ghosts” of previous relationships affecting your current relationship with a love interest? You probably have been taught some very valuable lessons regarding love, but have you moved on and learned from them or are you still falling into a trap of unhealthy patterns?

All of us carry emotional trigger points that may set us back momentarily, but if we learn from the past mistakes, we can ascertain certain things we do and do not want with our partner. What we do not want are unhealthy patterns of behavior and emotions just for the sake of not being alone.

What we do want is to move on from those “ghosts”, open our eyes to what is true and healthy and begin to grow in a beautiful relationship of trust and love.

Be open and honest with your partner and be open and honest with yourself of what you want in a relationship. By defining what you seek, you will not settle for anything less. Know your own self worth and realize the beautiful person you are. Release your past fears, emotional baggage and those old “ghosts” and begin to share the spirit of you in a healthy, loving relationship.