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More on the New Man

The last year, and the last six months in particular, have been a time of great reflection for me. Reflection on my life, my business and what really matters to me moving forward. And even though reflection is something I do naturally, the last few months in particular have taken me on a journey that is much deeper, more authentic, and quite frankly, something I never would have expected to happen.

Take my business for example, in looking back to when I first started out, I remember clear as day the reasons I became a soloprenuer. And one of the main reasons in particular was the ability to have a freedom-filled life-style where I was able to march to the beat of my own creative drum and express myself authentically through doing work I love.

And what a dream it has been. Having my own business has provided me with that autonomous life-style and so much more. Yet what I didn’t expect was, the feelings that I began to feel several months ago when I felt like my home-office walls were closing in on me. I couldn’t put my finger on exactly what was going on  I just knew that the isolation and loneliness I was feeling was leaving me feeling frustrated, angry, and sad and not knowing where to turn.

Yet at the time I didn’t know what I needed. I just knew that working at the coffee shop and being around other people’s energy was more inviting than working at home alone. But, even the coffee-shop energy couldn’t fulfill the inner hunger I was feeling because I would leave the environment and come away feeling alone, creatively stifled and frustrated.

It wasn’t until I got really real with myself and sat down to ask some deep, introspective questions that allowed me to get to the root of the pain and discover an eye-opening realization which was: I was living and working out of integrity - my isolation and loneliness may have been keeping me safe but it wasn’t making or keeping me happy or fulfilling my greatest potential.

See, many of us are working and living out of integrity  feeling isolated, lonely, frustrated, and creatively stifled when in actuality it is our style to not only be around others  but be around others who are self-aware, share our values, our desires, passions and missions and give us the ability to collaborate for the greater good.

And that is exactly what has been happening in my world. As a result of unveiling the ache/pain and receiving crystal clear clarity on what was missing for me, this new man I mentioned last week showed up in my life almost immediately. And as a result of this new energy and dynamic, ripple effects are taking place not only in my business but also in my life and the area of romance.

And this is what I’m so excited to be sharing more with you as I begin to not only unveil more about this new man and the value he’s bringing to my life, but how our dynamic is contributing to the next layer of the Claim Your Worth! ® process  and how it can help you up-level considerably in not only how you run and operate your business, but how you connect, interact, share and create intimacy with those who are most important to you.

So, stay tuned next week where I’ll be asking you to share your thoughts privately with me on the topics of business, life and romance and where you may be feeling like I felt in terms of isolation, loneliness, and sadness. There will also be a special gift for one of the stories that is shared that I’ll pick randomly!

Meanwhile, have a wonderful week and I’ll see you next week for some more intimate, authentic, sharing!

P.S: It certainly helps that this new man in my life is not only self-aware and values women and stands for us claiming our worth, but is also tall, handsome, and charming! Looking forward to revealing more about him soon!