Metaphysical Matchmaker Archives - Rejection Can Be a Blessing

Rejection Can Be A Blessing In Disguise

Dating is tough enough without having to face rejection and guys not calling you back when they say they will. But actually rejection is a blessing. If someone doesn’t follow through, or maybe even tells you that they are not interested in a romantic relationship, sure it can hurt at first but in the long run you have just been saved a lot of time and heartache. You might think that you are perfect for each other, he may seem like a prince, but there is a reason that things did not work out and you may never know why, but the door has just been opened for the right one to walk in. The man that you just prayed would return your sentiments might be a liar, a cheat, have emotional or financial issues, there could be some problem that would make your life miserable. So be happy that the universe took care of it and you are free to explore the next possibility. If you just let things happen naturally and not try to force a square peg in a round hole, you will begin to notice how smoothly everything goes.

Rejection Forces You To Like Yourself When Someone Else Doesn’t

When you get rejected by someone the natural response is often, “What’s wrong with me?” You might think that you are doing something wrong or something is wrong with your looks etc. The list in your head can go on and on. There will be many reasons that someone might not choose you but that has no basis on how special you are. When your light shines through, the right man will be attracted into your life. The only way for your light to shine is when you love and appreciate yourself. You are unique with special talents, humor, experiences and stories to tell. Do whatever you can to develop your strengths and positive attributes and be sure to acknowledge them to yourself. Liking yourself is like a beacon to others. They want to find out what is so special in you.

Rejection Can Show You How Badly You Want Something. Will You Stay The Course Or Give Up?

There are times when dating can get exhausting when things don’t work out and a relationship doesn’t develop. You might be tempted to throw in the towel and become a nun! You will soon find out how badly you want to be in a meaningful relationship when confronted with rejection.

Rejection Can Increase Your Creativity, You Might Have To Mix It Up And Try Something New.

Maybe the way you have been approaching things has got you in a rut. You just might feel propelled into action and get those creative juices flowing. In a loving way, re-evaluate what you have been doing and come up with some alternatives. You might want to throw a party and have all of your girlfriends bring an ex to recycle. Or you could get involved in or start a charity or foundation. Anything new and fresh will pull in new energy and ideas that will surly lead to success!

Don’t Be So Needy From Previous Rejections That You Can’t Reject Someone Who Clearly Isn’t Good For You.

It can get so frustrating when time goes by and you still are not with your soul mate. It is normal to feel the pressure and to feel lonely sometimes. Don’t use that as an excuse to settle for a man who doesn’t fit your criteria for a good mate. We all have to compromise on little things in life, but stand your ground and if a man you are dating does not meet what you are looking for or treats you badly, don’t be afraid to serve him his walking papers. He is not the last man who will be interested in you, but even if he was, it is better to be alone with the wrong person. Keep yourself open and available for the universe to bring you together with your soul mate. If you are dating the wrong person just to avoid being alone, then the right guy can’t get in.