Rejection Waves

Have you ever experienced the feelings of rejection from those you love and care about? How do you feel? Rejection can feel much like what was described in the post, “Waves” on Vibrational Thoughts.

At first you may feel such an intense pain and it may be hard to know that there is an end to these bad feelings. You are afraid of the future and afraid for change. You don’t want to be alone again and are yearning to turn back time and have a “do over”.  Try not to get stuck in “what if” or wishing the person was back in your life again.

The crashing to shore is tough, but do know that it’s not permanent. Rejection is hard to understand and perceive from someone you thought was your greatest ally – the potential love of your life. Please know that time truly is on your side and soon you will begin to ride the crest of the wave and the pain will begin to ease, bit by bit until you find those tranquil waters again.

Time will begin to help you overcome your disappointments and accept the fact that a relationship is over. You will need to learn to let go and forgive yourself and the person that has hurt you. Forgiveness does not condone the act of what may have been done. Realize your motives for forgiveness as forgiving someone does not mean that person should be a part of your life again. Forgiveness allows you to move on from the past. It allows you to let go and embrace the future. Forgiveness allows love in your life. Good, amazing things will happen when you allow your heart to be open again. The first step is through forgiveness.

Understand that discovery of who is not right for you may come in the form of rejection. Try not to dwell on the rejection. Think about this -- this person may be unable to see, understand or accept the remarkable person you are. They may not be ready for you. They cannot accept the gift of YOU being offered. They may be on a totally different journey than you. Just as you do, they also have choices whether to go forward in a relationship or not. Respect the choices. Look at the rejection as a blessing, an opportunity to look within and be grateful because it is allowing you to ready yourself to finding your perfect partner – you’ll see!